Tag Archive: Gender Issues

Whites Only?

'Nuff said.

A She Writes blog post by an African-American woman calling for “White Ambassadors To Help Me Cross Over” provokes a blog series, in which this piece is one of seven reactions.

On Dreams, Suffering and the French Film MARTYRS

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I was reminded of a strange dream I had a few years ago after recently watching the brilliant French film MARTYRS, and of course also manage to tie this back to Lady Gaga. ;-)

Intertextuality and Irony in Lady Gaga’s PAPARAZZI

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My submission for this week’s www.RedRoom.com themed blog competition on “What is your favorite pop song?”

On homosociality, American masculinties, and violence against women in DEADGIRL

Vagina dentata imagery in the flesh.

Delving back into my much-loved world of cultural anthropology via the horror film “Deadgirl” and its social significance.

Portrait of A Killer

A review of Patricia Cornwell’s phenomenal forensic study “Portrait of a Killer: Jack The Ripper Case Closed”

Woe Is Me

Oh the horror!

Exploring the various facets of women’s literature and where my first novel, AMERICAN MONSTERS, fits into the debate.

Misogyny Lives

I am stunned beyond belief at all the support being offered Roman Polanski, convicted child raper and jail dodger, after his long overdue  arrest in Zurich last week. What kind of world do we live in that just because a person is a celebrity and a holocaust survivor he is somehow seen as being exempt…

A Love Letter to Valerie Solanas

Written on a postcard of a post-castration knife: Society, male, hard-pressed to find one Cut above the rest Under their weight we float Mindful of their miniscule penises. Where a stamp could go but there is only an unidentifiable stain: Prague June 11, 2009 Reading “Outlaw Woman” and thinking of how you are one of…

Little Children, Directed by Todd Field, 2006

Very few movies captivate us to the core of our humanity and evoke who we really are on screen. Our desires, our sadnesses, our lost dreams. Hardly any movies ever accomplish this, and rarely do we actually want the movies we watch to remind us of the most painful aspects of our lives. It seems…

Turkish Delight Volume 11: Stilettos and Headscarves

All around the world, we see examples of vast gulf between the theory and practice of religion. A warmongering Christian American president, who seems to not understand the basic tenets of Christianity that are peace, love and tolerance. Muslim fundamentalists who do not seem to understand or follow the teachings of Mohammed, the Prophet, who…

Turkish Delight Volume 10: Outside Honor: A Foreigner’s Perspective of Istanbul

When I moved to Istanbul, I was told that Turkey is an honour-based society. If a man follows me in the street or molests me in some way, I was to shout “Sherefsiz!” which means “Without honor!” and this would bring people running to my defence. What I came to learn is that Turkey is…

300 Ways To Tell The Difference Between Coercion and Consent

After having watched 300 twice now in mixed company, I continue to be disturbed, perturbed and supremely irritated by the fact that men still don’t seem to understand the difference between coercion and consent when it comes to sexual intercourse. 300 has a very distressing scene where The Spartan Queen offers herself to a Councilman…

A Sinister Sunday

Sunday’s are no longer a day of quiet leisure and relaxing with my secret pleasures of ‘The OC’ and ‘One Tree Hill.’ In lieu of catching the only work shuttle to the Hurriyet Media Tower where I wile my days away trapped on the top floor like the princess I used to imagine I was,…

Monthly Mourning

The Lakota believe that when a woman is on her period it is her time of monthly mourning. That her body knows the potential for a new life will be lost and on a very deep and primal level, she mourns that loss. This is their explanation for menstrual mood swings and all of the…

too many things, too many things

we had some firsts since i last wrote…our first hailstorm, our first visits from the Stray Cats on the balcony calling me for food, and our first bomb blasts in istanbul. the bomb blasts were on sunday night and apparently went off just before we got in our dolmos to get home…i was pretty freaked…

strange burkah behavior and how to recognise a turkish woman

i know i keep saying it, but this is truly a place of vivid contradictions. today we walked around a shopping mall (don’t roll your eyes! they have a good supermarket in there!) that could have been in glendale, california. except for the turkish writing, of course. steve saw a woman in a full burkah…

not a love letter to Cyber-Sluts

written on a postcard that is a photograph of a fake-boob wanna-be whore that gets sent to all profiles on myspace that are male on the blank space that is not filled by her sillicone implants: instead of augmenting your breastsit would have helped to grow some self-respect where a stamp would go it says:myspacejune…

Violence against women and children is a horrible worldwide scourge, but there is no evidence of it in our country (or the Sixteenth and Seventeenth Reports on the 61st UN Commission on Human Rights, April 7, 8, 2005)

On April 7 and 8 the Commission continued discussing Item 12 on the Integration of the human rights of women and the gender perspective: a) Violence against women, and judging by the interventions made by both Member and Observer States, although violence against women is widespread and horrific, it doesn’t seem to happen in any…

Why is rape not considered torture? (or the Fifteenth Report on the 61st UN Commission on Human Rights, April 6, 2005)

Yakin Erturk, the Special Rapporteur (SR) on violence against women, its causes and consequences: -widespread violence against women around the world and just as common is impunity of the violators. -country visits to Guatemala, El Salvador, occupied Palestinian territories, Sudan. In Guatemala widespread violence against indigenous women who face multiple discriminations. In Sudan, horrific rape…