A letter to my friend Wendy on the 23rd memorial of her death.
And the Ramones absolutely rock.
In spite of the various problematic issues that have come out over the years, Buffy will always hold a special place in my heart.
"After Wendy's death I had to testify in court three times against her murderers: The first was the preliminary hearing to determine if the case would go to trial. The second was against the woman who pulled the trigger. The third time I testified was against the murderer's accomplice." My 17th article for HuffPost, published in October 2015.
How both trauma and Third Culture Kid-ness fragment one's personality.